I sometime allow myself to be emotional and write down whatever thoughts come into my mind.  Here are few lines which I wrote five years back when I had a discussion with one of my friend about attachment. I happened to read it today and thought of posting it…

The attachment is  not  about caring for someone, it is all about how you feel about that person. Let that person be your friend, brother, sister, mom,dad , husband or wife.
Sometimes in life we care for the person, but we are not attached. For example, wife caring for  her mother-in-law or taking care about people who are strangers to us.
It is the feeling about the person that makes us attached to them. Caring can be the result of it.

As long as our feelings are good and we are aware about the responsibility of our feelings, I don’t think there is a need to worry.

The best thing that we could do as a human being for ourselves is  not to put someone or ourselves in problem because of something that we feel is right for us and which is completely unethical for others.

So, life is all about taking care of our feelings honestly and responsibly so that it would  not cause any kind of trouble for anyone involved.

Yes, and there comes a time in life when we are supposed to not to show our feelings despite of however strong the feeling is. We as a human being have to respect and obey the need of time.

The true feelings are not that we show to others that how we feel about them, It is always about how good our feelings are for them and what all positive changes it can bring into their life. It is always about well being of the person we care most. 🙂