Category Archives: Love

Happy Valentine’s Day

True love is not when you say “I Love You” to someone or someone says “I Love You” to you.

It is not when you are ready to die for someone but when you are ready to live for someone.

It is not about changing your life for someone to live up to their expectations but living your life and letting him/her to live life with his/her full potential.

It is not about expecting sorry or thank you from them, but saying it to them.

True love is when you are busy in your work, have lots of things to take care, your financial statement does not support smile on your face, you have the world’s complex problems to take care and someone whispers his/her name and all of sudden your face glow up with a delicate smile. You forget all your problems for a while and go back to old memories and look up to the sky and say thanks to God and pray for him/her for his/her best.

If he or she is a reason of your smile,if he / she is someone about whom you like to hear most from your close friends,if you do not only remember their birth days but give treats to your friends on his/her birth day,you do not tell them you love him/her and he/she still understands that you love him/her most and gives an imperial smile to you,then that’s your true love.

Remember them today and say thanks to them by looking up above the sky for being part of your life. He or she is a diamond/pearl of life. It really does not matter where the pearl or diamond is, the only thing that matters most is, it remains safe, happy, shinning, bright and glorious as it used to be.

If your love is your life partner, go and hug him/her. Say thanks to him/her and God. Go for shopping. Get him/her the things that they like and not the things that you like. Go out for a dinner or cook his/her favorite dishes.

If your current situations and priorities do not allow you to do that, write one liner saying “You mean lot to me”.

If you both are yet to marry, spend some time together, listen to each other, plan for future and enjoy the day. You would remember the day for sure.

If your love is not with you, pray for him/her. Remember them. If you have truly loved them, it will bring smile on your face. If you feel angry or sad, or agony don’t worry. Be relaxed and be happy and honest that you have actually not loved him/her.
True loves bring happiness and not the pain.

It is not about asking him/her to do something for you but doing something for them.
True love gives you motivation, inspiration, generates positive energy and above all it gives you strength to do your best every time.

Falling in your love was the decision that I took before I saw you. I started loving you before I know anything about you. You were the imaginations of my conscious mind and seeing you first time made me realized that you were not mere imaginations but had actually born before I born and it was left to time before I happened to meet you. I remember the day when I met you first time. I did not know that, it would be a day that I would remember again and again in my life. I do remember that day today and see, I am smiling. 🙂

Thanks for being there as always. 🙂

My India को Clean India बनाना है ।

आज मेरे दिल में एक तूफ़ान उठा है,
My India को Clean India बनाना है ।

निकल पडा हू अकेला , इस नेक डगर पे,
जो कोई साथ मिल जाये, साथी बनाना है ।
हर गाँव, हर शहर, तक सन्देश फैलाना है ,
My India को Clean India बनाना है ।

बहुत जी ली, पराई उम्मीदों की जिंदगी,
अब कर्मयोगी बनके, मंजिल को पाना है ।
स्वछता का दीपक हर घर में जलाना है,
My India को Clean India बनाना है ।

सवाल करेगी मुज़ से,आनेवाली पीढ़िया,
देश के लिये, आप ने क्या क्या किया है ?
मेरे बच्चोकी उम्मीदों का जवाब देना है,
My India को Clean India बनाना है ।

आज मेरे दिल में एक तूफ़ान उठा है,
My India को Clean India बनाना है ।

મારા વિશે કઈંક લખ

મારા વિશે કઈંક લખ, એવુ ના બોલતી ફરીશ તુ વારંવાર,
હું તો લખી નાખીશ, પણ પછી વાંચતી રહીશ તુ વારંવાર.

મને સમજાતું નથી કે તારા વિશે બધુ જાણી ને તુ કરીશ શું?
ખબર તો તને પડશે નહિ , પછી પૂછતી રહીશ તુ વારંવાર.

કર્મ થી કાંઈ હું ગઝલકાર નથી, ને શબ્દો મારાં ગઝલ નથી.
સમજાવી નહી શકુ હું બધું, તોય સમજતી રહીશ તુ વારંવાર.

સમય ક્યા મળે છે હવે પહેલાની જેમ તારા વિશે લખવા માટે,
પણ નઝમ બની મારા વિચારોમા આવતી રહીશ તુ વારંવાર.

હરેશ તારી લાગણીઓ વિશે લખી લખી ને કેટલુ લખે?
શબ્દ હશે, શ્વાશ હશે, ત્યાં સુધી લખાતી રહીશ તુ વારંવાર.

Software Programming is a fun..

The beauty of programming is, you enjoy it when you are completely in it. It is like diving into the ocean and enjoying the ride. You can’t enjoy the ride if you are watching it from sea shore. Some issues take hours to solve, some badly written code takes weeks to refactor, some apps take months to get stabilized and some products take years to take off. At the end it is the journey from one programming state to another state that matters most.

IPL 7 : A Management lesson for HR from Mumbai Indian team

If you ask any cricket friend in india, what is the biggest upset of the IPL 7?

The answer without any doubt would be the performance of Mumbai Indian Team. It shocked all friends and even many still can’t believe that last year’s IPL and ICL champion is struggling to register their first win. They have lost all four matches they have played in this tournament. Batting used to be their biggest strength but this time it has become their biggest problem. What’s wrong with the team?

I being a people manger know one thing for sure and that is, your people are your best investment. Last year’s best performers Smith, Maxwell, Johnsan and Kartik who helped them to win IPL and ICL are not part of the team. How a team can take such a big risk? You need to retain your best talent for consistent and better performance. Look at Chennai Super Kings, they retain most of the players in past IPLs and that was the reason for their consistency. You are supposed to not to throw your best performers just because you got some one new who costs you less. You need to retain your best players else you will lose their services and sometime they can become problem for you if they become your competitors. All these guys have been match winners of their respective team in this IPL. The other big problem is their most motivating batsman Sachin Tendulkar is not available to play. The presence of Sachin on crease can make a big difference. The team management should have done better job by replacing Sachin with other great opening batsman and not the Mike Hussey who is retired from international cricket and not in touch with the game since long time. Look at their opening pair. AP tare is not a replacement of smith and Hussey can not be a replacement of Sachin. You have lost your game their. I don’t see any reason of keeping Pollard in team. If you look at his last 4 years’ record, his performance is not so impressive except few matches. He has not scored too many runs and his bowling is never been so great. He is one of the best fielder of the game but you can’t have someone in a team just because he is a good fielder. He has to be either a good batsman or bowler who is consistent.

Moral : Keep your best talent in your team. Make every efforts to retain them. It is easy to fill vacancies but difficult to fill the positions. This is applicable to all sectors whether it is private or government.

Life is beautiful..

Everyday brings new opportunities and challenges to our life. Some time challenges are so complex, we forget to enjoy life. It is hard to enjoy the challenge when we know that problem is not going to be solved so soon. We try different solutions and try to overcome challenges but we may not get immediate success. The real test of life is, when we know that problem is going to be there, there is no easy and instant solution of it, the circumstances are not in our hand and we still manage to smile at situation. 🙂

Life is beautiful when we see it as beautiful. Love the circumstances. Encourage yourself to take such unknown and pathetic situation lightly. Try to laugh at it and say yourself, wow this is my kind of problem.
I am going to learn so many things from it. It will help me to overcome my short comings. I am going to enjoy it however difficult it is. Listen to your inner soul. You will always find some hope in every difficult situation and you would start enjoying this beautiful life.

मुझे आज रात को नींद नही आ रही है..

मुझे आज रात को नींद नही आ रही है,
क्योंकि कल मेरी बेटी आध्या आ रही है |

आदत नही है मुझे ऐसे इंतज़ार करने की,
फिर भी घड़ी बार-बार समय दिखा रही है |

खुली आंखोसे जब सोने का प्रयास करता हू,
तो ख्वाब में आके पापा-पापा बुला रही है |

बहुत व्यस्त हो गया था काम में कुछ दिन,
शायद इसीलिए वो चुपके से चिल्ला रही है |

छोटी सी है जिंदगी, और वो उस से भी छोटी,
यही अहेसाँस, वो क्यूँ बार बार दिला रही है ?

बन गयी है प्राथमिकता जीवन कि अब वो,
मुझे हर पल अपने आप से मिला रही है ||

मुझे आज रात को नींद नही आ रही है,
क्योंकि कल मेरी बेटी आध्या आ रही है |

અપવાદ છે

બધી વાતમાં એ અપવાદ છે,
જે પોતે જ પ્રેમ નો સંવાદ છે.

ભીંજાઈ જવામાં એની મજા છે,
ઝરમર વરસતો એ વરસાદ છે.

જાણી શકો એને તો એ જીવન છે,
પ્રભુએ આપેલો પાવન પ્રસાદ છે.

હસતા હોઠ એના હરિના દ્વાર છે,
આંખો થી માણો તો આશિર્વાદ છે.

પ્રસંગ પણ મહાપ્રસંગ બની જાય

પ્રસંગ પણ મહાપ્રસંગ બની જાય, જ્યારે એમાં કોઇ પોતાનું મળી જાય.
દિલમાં સંઘરેલી યાદો ખીલી ઉઠે, જ્યારે હવામાં એની ખુશ્બૂ ભળી જાય.

એ આંખો સામે હોય છતાં પણ આંખો તો એનો જ ઈંતજાર કરતી હોય,
વર્ષોથી જાણતા હોવ જેને, એની જ સાથે ફરીથી ઓળખાણ થયી જાય.

જે ખુદ જ્ સૌથી વધારે કિંમતિ હોય એને બીજી કોઇ ભેટની જરૂર શાની,
ઘડી બે ઘડી થાય વાતચીત ને, એમને સમય ની મહા ભેટ મળી જાય.

સાંભળ્યું હતું મે શાસ્ત્રનાં શ્રવણમાં કે પરિવર્તન તો છે સંસારનો નિયમ,
પણ સુંદર શબ્દો એમનાં સાંભળી, ખુદ સમય પણ ક્ષણ માટે થંભી જાય.

જ્યાં સંબંધ હોય નિસ્વાર્થ સ્નેહનો, એ ખુદ પધારી પ્રસંગ દિપાવી જાય,
ને ત્યારે હરેશનાં દિલનું એ સપનું, સપનું મટી એક હકીકત બની જાય.